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Five Easy Ways to Start
Creating Your New Private Practice
Part I: Combine Your Talents and Interests to
Develop Your Niche
by John T. Carlsen, Psy.D.
If you dream about starting a private practice, you might be stuck somewhere between the dreaming and the starting. You are not alone.
When trying to create something new, most of us have no idea where to start. This is especially true with something so vague and undefined as a new small business. So, you might have tried to settle — for simply continuing to dream and trying to make the best of it. Trying to move forward without a clear sense of direction leaves you too overwhelmed to do anything.
Yet, if you are like most new psychologists, you cannot simply put this issue to rest. Despite your best efforts, you have never been able to shelve the dream completely or convince yourself to stop thinking about it. No matter how much effort you put into making do with your day job, the gnawing feeling that you are wasting your potential never completely goes away.
Would you include yourself in this group?
You constantly battle with waves of restlessness and struggle to compensate for feeling creatively unfulfilled. You know that you belong doing something more important, or at least more interesting, something that uses more of your professional talents and gifts and stretches your creative mind. Ultimately, you want to do something more fulfilling that would generate enough income to help pay off your loans and maybe even raise your standard of living.
But, you have no idea what to do next.
Your struggle is what leads most people to become professionals: They feel compelled by a strong inner drive to make something worthwhile out of their lives. They believe they have no other choice than to continue struggling with this inner agitation until they can reach some sort of resolution. Face it: If you were the type who could simply go somewhere every day and work for someone else to earn your living, you would have done so by now. And, that would have been the end of it.
You certainly would not have invested so much time and energy (not to mention money) to become a professional psychologist.
You could, I’m sure, have come up with far easier (and more enjoyable) ways to spend this kind of time and money. Clearly, you must have higher aspirations and greater expectations about what you want to accomplish in your life. They probably include working at something you love and, maybe, getting paid well for doing it. Or, possibly doing something you believe will make the world a better place. Or maybe you simply want to try being your own boss and creating a small organization that reflects your priorities.
Whatever your reasons, you owe it to yourself (and the world around you) to find your professional niche. There are people all around you who need your help, who need the benefits of the gifts you have to offer. And, they continue to wait while you struggle to resolve this question.
Actually, if you are like most people, your dream is probably hovering in the psychic space right in front of you, just a bit beyond your reach. You probably glimpse it every day. At least, you feel its constant, almost gravitational, pull for your attention. And, not a week goes by that you experience relief from its relentless assault on your conscience, provoking you to take it seriously and find the energy to start doing something about it. In fact, the more you try to suppress it, the more strongly it takes over your imagination.
It’s time you started stretching your arms to grab hold of it. And, there is no better time to start than now. But what can you do next? What steps can you take today to begin moving yourself from dreaming to starting — without subjecting yourself to any unnecessary risks? The secret involves starting simply and building a foundation that is close to home. The following guidelines will help you get started:
Let your imagination go wild and capture every picture it gives you, no matter how unrealistic or unimaginable. In 1987, when I first wrote down the idea that I wanted to work with people privately using my writing and editing skills, I had no idea I would wind up helping people to create more powerful resumes and earning more per hour than the average high school or college English teacher. Who could have imagined that people would pay me well to indulge my obsession with grammar and punctuation? Avoid the temptation to use your computer to write these first thoughts. Typing will keep you trapped in your mind, where you will stay focused on analyzing whether or not your ideas are possible. Your writing hand, by contrast, is connected directly to your heart, so it will ensure that you also capture the emotional energy that fuels your dreams. Writing by hand will slow you down to the speed of your dreams and encourage you to capture them fully without racing beyond them.
- Describe your private practice/small business dreams on paper as accurately as you can.
Think about what kinds of problems you want to help people solve that also hold some personal meaning or significance for you. You probably have identified some specific areas of psychology that you find particularly fascinating and started developing them into an area of specialty. Think about who might appreciate what you know in these areas and how you could use your fascination to help them solve problems and improve their daily lives. I, for example, have a libeling interest in trying to prevent people from carrying their unused talents to their graves. I grieve a bit whenever I come across people who continue wasting their talents and gifts simply because they are afraid to reveal them or have no idea how to start using them. As our country and culture become ever more driven by technology and materialism - and people become increasingly isolated from a sense of community - I feel even more committed to helping people reconnect with themselves in these simple ways. Maybe you, similarly, have deep concern about helping families to communicate more effectively or helping schools to set up more effective programs for special-needs children. Give yourself the chance to express it in words and start applying your passions for helping the people who need you. Start combining your psychology interests with your other interests in new ways. If you want to create a practice or small business outside the traditional realm of providing outpatient therapy or testing, ask how you could apply psychological principles and strategies to help people in your other areas of interest. I often tell people how my two identities as a writer and a psychologist interact to improve each other. On one hand, my skills as a writer help me to improve the contents and the timing of my therapeutic interventions. On the other, my therapeutic perspective helps me to understand the causes of writer’s block and the most effective strategies for helping my individual clients to work through it. Think about your own unusual interests and how you could combine them in new and unprecedented ways. For a wonderful example of how a successful business is preparing to combine traditionally consumer services, read about how Starbucks is moving into the music business.1 (By the way, this magazine "Fast Company" is a wonderful educational tool about marketing for new private practitioners and business owners.) Zero in on the challenges that people have a vested interest in overcoming as soon as possible but cannot address adequately on their own. Author and educator Parker Palmer calls this "finding the place where your gifts intersect with the world’s greatest needs."2 When I started my career coaching practice over 17 years ago, I had no idea I would uncover a knack for helping people to uncover and start living their hidden professional dreams. Or carve out a niche of helping graduate students to articulate their aspirations so they could write better internship applications and conduct more successful interviews. While applying for my own internship in 1992, I kept thinking someone ought to help students to navigate this challenging and unpredictable process. As I continued mulling over this question during the next year, it gradually dawned on me: The person I was looking for was me. Looking in the mirror, I realized that I was the Someone who could assume this responsibility for guiding others. As a career and writing consultant, I had the necessary skills and expertise - and passion - to help students match their interests and skills with training that would help them succeed. So, the following fall, I designed and led my first workshop series for internship applicants, fueled by nothing more than a burning desire to help others manage an overwhelming process and the knowledge of what had worked for me. Notice how often in your daily life you come across people who have trouble with the kinds of problems you want to help them solve. You will be amazed by how quickly these people start appearing all around you, once you start paying attention. You will come across stories about them in magazines or your daily newspaper, on television, on the bus or train, even at dinner and cocktail parties. Start a journal in which you keep track of these situations and take time to analyze exactly what role(s) you could play in helping the stories to turn out differently. Think about how you could help the characters to make different choices or overcome certain obstacles to achieve their goals and to start living their dreams.
If you give yourself permission to do all of this on paper first, you can quit wondering when you will take the first step and stop beating yourself up for not having made progress sooner. You can also shift your attention toward the excitement of bringing something into existence that was not here before now. In a very short time, you will start recognizing and appreciating the unique perspectives you have to offer your clients. And, you will see clearly how you could use your natural talents and gifts in creative and innovative ways to help an overlooked segment of the population to solve their problems and start achieving their goals.
More importantly, by starting on paper, you will avoid taking on the responsibility of a long-term office lease . . . and the embarrassment of having to close your practice prematurely - because you failed to build an adequate stream of new clients. Rather than sitting alone in your brand-new office as many new private practitioners do - wondering why people are not beating a path to your door - you will learn to position yourself to reach this group more effectively. You will prepare yourself to start attracting the flow of people who want and need the unique expertise you offer . . . and are willing to pay whatever it costs to get it.
And, you will create a written map of your plans that both guides your efforts and sustains your confidence as you navigate these uncharted waters to bring your professional dreams into reality.
1. Overholt, Alison. (2004, July). Thinking Outside the Cup: Listening to Starbucks. Fast Company. 50-56.
2. Palmer, Parker. (2000). Let Your Life Speak. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.
John T. Carlsen, Psy.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist who trains and supervises psychology interns and externs. He offers personal coaching and training resources for graduate students applying for internships and post-doctoral jobs. Click here to learn more about how to write effective applications and prepare for interviews. Click here to submit comments, questions, or suggestions for future newsletter topics.
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